Hello, Once again,  My Beauties! It is another week and another Blog :) 

I am so grateful that I am alive and able to connect with you through this medium.  Most weeks I am unsure of what to discuss or what my message will be

But in the midst of unsurety  I pull my chair out, sit around my desk, open my laptop and start writing.

We never ever have it all figured out and that is why we should opt to go with the flow other than driving ourselves crazy trying to figure it all out- which we never do.
The past few weeks have been very difficult for me, I find it hard to cope with everything, which has me praying more, reading my bible more frequently and restoring my faith in GOD. 

On that note, I had a heart to heart with GOD this morning, about what I am doing and if I am fulfilling my divine purpose

 Sometimes I get so unsure because I want to be on the right track doing what I was called to do. I worry if I am doing all the right things and I am making an impact and fulfilling my promise to GOD to do his work and to live by his words.

So this morning was one of those mornings where I needed reassurance.  So I went talked to him (GOD) and sure he reassured me that I am doing all I needed to do.  You Know, before I started writing this blog my intent was to write a blog about the hardship I faced as an entrepreneur, however when I started writing and the Spirit led me to where I am at right now., so I kept on writing because maybe it led me down this writing path because someone needed this message more or maybe I just needed to delve into my emotions and let it all out to let it be known that I DO NOT have it all figured out and I am faced with the same challenges and the same questions and insecurities that we all are faced with.

None of us have it all figured out no matter how we pretend we do. No two days are the same, so there is no way for you to have it all figured out. Unless you have some superpower and can see what your day will be like before it happens. We are all figuring out as we go along and that's why we should never be quick to judge. 

Every day we are faced with different challenges but our struggles remain constant because we are left with the task of trying to put the pieces of the puzzles together and overcoming each challenge that is thrown at us each day. Many of us have become pros at this so it is super easy for us to accomplished these tasks. Others aren't so lucky they struggle tremendously to overcome a challenge because they just don't know HOW TO.

"HOW TO" wasn't thought in schools. The simple survival skills that we need to cope with life's challenges were left off the curriculum and we are left to figure it out on our own. Some of us never get it, unfortunately. I could have easily been one of the many that did not get it and go through life like a lost child. But along the way somehow I figured out  "HOW TO" that was necessary for me to create a life of abundance! Most "HOW TO" can be acquired by watching others who are successful in the game. We must have good discernment when watching someone else and applying what you have seen ad learned to our own lives.

Some of the ways how I cope is simple. It doesn't require a lot from the physical realm but it does require plenty of spiritual work. First, we must figure out what is your WHY? Your why is your purpose finding your "WHY" is one of the most fulfilling things that you can experience.  Your "Why" cannot be someone else wish for you or what someone thinks you should be doing. Your "WHY" comes from the core- it comes from the spirit. It is that feeling that you cannot shake even when you try to ignore it. 

For example, while I was running around doing all sorts of things, from sales to modeling, to music to Real Estate and GOD knows what else I was doing or didn't do. But while I was moving between careers trying to find what sticks. Nothing that I  was tried stuck, it never stuck because none of what I was doing was my purpose- it was never my divine calling.

Your purpose is your divine calling it is what you came into this world to be- It is also the most feared idea or thoughts, in other words, it is always that thing that you are running away from. Because it is so massive that you feel its too grand for you and there's no way that you in your physical state can handle it. But GOD never gives you more than what you can bear.

You were chosen for that task because no one else can do it better than you can, so with fears aside I want you to sit with yourself, on second thought you don't even have to sit with yourself to figure out your why because you already know what it is. And another thing not because you stayed in a Job for 30years it means that's your purpose. Staying in a job for 30 years only means that you were too afraid to live your purpose. Your purpose will never be in the form of you slaving for anyone- It would carrying that weight of making an impact in your life and others.  It would be doing things that will make or leave a mark in this world. So when I was connected with my purpose I knew right away that this was it! I found a gold mine and I was extremely ecstatic to mine for gold. Sittig around this computer writing this blog, recording my podcast, writing my books recording and editing my videos is the most fulfilled I  have ever been. When I found my 'why'  the " How to " become easier - channels start opening up and my path became clearer. Just know this that even though you will know "how to" there is still not a straight and narrow path to achieving success. It is trial and error and trying again- and that is why understanding cause and effect and knowing that you are a Life Creator is so imperative to creating a life of abundance.



Your why is your purpose- knowing your purpose will aid in you developing "HOW TO."

Remember you will never have it all figured out- Life is a school and you never stop learning and growing.

Take your time -have faith and trust GOD. Stay prayed up meditate, read your bible, take care of your well-being and spirit.

Know that wellness and spirituality are major-key to accomplish all your goals. Be patient in your work never get discouraged - be kind to yourself and treat yourself well. And if you do get discouraged reinstate your faith and trust that everything will work diligently in your favor.  Ask for you want- do the work and let GOD do the rest!


 Have a Creative Day!!


LIfe Creator/Lightworker

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Hello, My Beauties! 


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Welcome back to our weekly Blogspot! Where we keep it educational, inspirational and with a little fun!


Oh my, what can I say the weeks are going by so fast and I do hope that you are making every day count!

I am sure I have said this somewhere before maybe in a previous blog, a video or maybe on an episode of our Life Creators' Podcast, I don't know if it feels the same for you, but I feel like January was a whole year! 

There were so many happenings in January alone that I am left feeling like I spend the entire 365 days in one month, phew! we definitely need to talk a breather coming off of that month.

Talking about a long month - Let's talk about today- It is Monday, February 10th and boy it was a long day.

I set out with a goal of accomplishing a few business errands and ended up doing twice as much as I wanted to do, which is goal accomplished and then some- so I am very thankful! Goal accomplished!

  But boy! am I tired! But I will not complain because if you ask me it is all worth it!

I accomplished all that I set out to do and more, so that's a day worth celebrating. The fact that I got everything knocked off the chart definitely makes up for the tiredness that I feel.

I like setting goals and accomplishing them- when I set goals I feel twice as productive as how I would've of felt if I didn't SET GOALS for myself.

These days I try to calendarize my day and make sure that I am hitting my marks and accomplishing my goals!

A simple task such as writing your goals down can be super rewarding!

As I set out to be organized at the beginning of the year I look forward to days of charting my daily goals and routines. I find that when I write my goals or my daily tasks I am more liable to get them done, at least  90 percent of the time.

I find that if I am just "WINGING IT" I am flustered - jumping from task to task and not getting anything done that will move the needle. I believe that in our daily routine at least one thing must be done to progress us from where we are to somewhere at a little closer to where you want to be.

So by virtue, whatever you do should be productive, We must be able to look back on our day with a smile because we have progressed! Some.times we don't complete all our set goals, however, once progress is made and we are not regressing then it is a plus.



How to Set Progressive Goals!

Setting goals are one thing- but in truth, we can set goals that limit our progress instead of moving us forward.

One of the ways to ensure that your goals are moving you forward is to set Focus Goals or Progressive Goals!

Focus goals are urgent goals- these tasks are a MUST do or MUST have! So, in other words, FOCUS GOALS are the most immediate goals.  These are things that need to be done right away! For example, there is no food in the pantry. So, if there is no food in the pantry you know that's an urgent goal because you must eat!

So, what is the immediate action to take here?

The immediate action would be, writing a shopping list and going to the market, right? 

So you wouldn't ignore that there is no food and go get your hair or nail done instead, right?

Because if that is done that would be an action that will limit your progress instead of moving it forward

Why? because getting food was more immediate than getting hair or nails done because food is more essential in this scenario, we need food to survive.

So, you see where I am going with this, right?

We MUST prioritize- It is super important to look at all the angles and narrow it down to the most acute angle or situation.   

We MUST  look at what action will create the most impact or have the most value!

So when we set goals they cannot be random, they MUST be focused and precise. This method will eliminate us doing ten different unimpactful tasks before we getting to that one task that we should have created more impact than those ten prior tasks. 

Being goal focused can also save time and energy that you could have used on something else or somewhere else that would've generated more value.   Say, for instance, my immediate goal was to put windows in the house, but I decided that I am going to buy furniture instead.

While the furniture might be necessary, the windows are more immediate, because,

one, I need to windows for safety reasons not only to prevent burglars from coming in but always to protect the furniture from being exposed or destroyed by the elements.

  So, in this case, I have used up time and energy where it was not urgently needed.  So, Being focus on your goals is knowing exactly what is it you want to accomplish in the most immediate term.

So we MUST prioritize and to prioritize one must know what is most needed or important base on their individual standpoint because what I might consider a priority, someone else might think it is not that important and visa versa.


that's a priority on a wider scale let's narrow it back down to goal setting, where we might have a different perspective


Write your goals down!

It is one thing to have your goals in your head as opposed to seeing it on paper.

It has been researched that when you write a goal down you are more liable to accomplish said goal more briskly- than if that goal is kept in your head.

Base on my own experience I find this to be a FACT! Not only do I get it done- I find that where memory is necessary I am less liable to forget that goal and with age, writing down a goal or task becomes very handy. :)

While making written notes, I find that going back to those notes I am often reminded that I have this or that to do and the impulse to get it done is far greater than if it was stored in my head.

So, as I said before these days I am writing down my goals, not only for memory but to get it done in a timely manner and also to be more organized and create a routine.

If you want to increase productivity and success rate- start charting your goals and remember while having wider ranged goals that you can accomplish over a period of time (long term)  having more focused goals (short term) will have you feeling way more productive because those goals are immediate and precise.


Goal Setting

1. Set attainable goals

2. Set shorter-term goals that can be accomplished between one day - a month

3. SEt focused or specific goals, for example, make sure your goal is specific to what you want to accomplished Like the example I used about the windows and furniture.

4. Make sure your goals are measurable

5. Write down your goals- they look better on paper and you will feel far more productive

6. Take action to complete a goal- don't just write it down

7. When you accomplished a goal make it off you list and add another goal

8. Make sure your goal is not limiting you but progressing you forward.




I used to procrastinate A LOT but once I start writing done my goals or daily task I find that I get way more done in a day than I would ever imagine. My days are far more productive and I have far more FREE time too.


Because I am organized, more focused and I am getting things DONE! Procrastination doesn't mean you are not doing- it means you are doing but not which is important.

  So start setting your goals- write them done and watch your life changed before your eyes.  And as a Life Creator, it is in your powers to change your life and make it what you want it to be! So start creating TODAY!

I am still tired and it's Tuesday, February 11th It never gets easy but we MUSt keep pushing! 

Have a Creative Day!




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Hello, My Beauties!

I hope you are carving out a beautiful life for yourself now that you know you are a deliberate creator- creating your own reality!

 The year 2020 which is a leap year is on its way and is causing all kinds of chaos and confusion in the world as we speak.  With  January now in our rearview  we are looking towards the "Love Month." February.

Some of us are already planning what gifts to buy, where and what to eat, what movie to watch( if we still do that for V-Day) or you might be like me who do not celebrate, so you are feeling no pressure at this moment.

Apart from February being BLACK HISTORY MONTH where we celebrate and educate ourselves on black history while paying homage to those how have pioneered the black culture and have gone done in history which we can now look back on in glee and pride.

February is also a month where most people celebrate their love for their loved ones by showering them with expensive gifts which they used once or never. 


 This makes one player very happy and that is the retailer. Over the years retailers have found a way to commercialize this day to sell more products and us being the discipline students that we are just bought right into it.

Coming off the heels of the Christmas holidays another  commercialized gift-frenzy season  which now have me asking

"What happened to the birth of Christ?" 

Back when  I was a child Christmas used to symbolize Christ's Birth but today it is all about the gifts, which are causing more stress and less fun.

V-day too has changed a whole lot and has lost its luster and now fewer and fewer people are celebrating and now believe it is a hoax. 

  Back when I used to celebrate, which are years ago, properly when I was a teenager,  the symbols for V-day were Chocolate, teddybear, and flowers. These days if you give someone just chocolate or a teddy bear, or even some roses-  Chances are it might just wound up in a bin somewhere or even worse- in your face. To say things have changed is an understatement.

Somehow retailers have sneakingly found away to commercialized, what should be a special time to show love and to spend quality time with loved ones into a money-making machine. 

More and more people are racking up debts spending what they don't have because they have fallen into Charlotte's Web and they have no idea how to get out.

Let us be real, Can most of us afford this kind of spending or are we racking up unnecessary debts?

Who are to real winners in this setup?

Who benefits the most from this system?

Are you happy with your expenditure or are you worried about how you are going to pay the credit card company?

If you are left with any of these feelings or questions after you walked out of a store then you are in way over your head.

When you make any purchase you should be happy if you are not happy then that's a purchase that you really didn't need to make. 

In reality, this is about 70-80% of the time and this sort of thing is not good for your well-being.

I am not saying that giving your girl or guy or even your mother a gift for V-day if you celebrate, is a bad thing. I am only saying that  if you are spending money that you DO NOT have then"Houston we have a problem!" A huge one.

I  don't think anyone should go broke or worst create unwarranted debts to prove their love for anyone because truth is that's not how you show love! 

Call me crazy but I thought love came from the heart- which means it CANNOT be bought.

Love is something that you give naturally every single day. Love is not a one-day event to comes around once a year and then we forget about it until next time. It is an every day -every minute- every second-even when I am mad at you-kind -of -event!

Incurring debts is not love, showering your loved one with expensive-useless gifts is not love (well in my mind it is not) this statement could be contrary to some other views, However,  in this blog, I only share my views and they are as such.

Let us be real-real !

How do you feel after making these purchases? Be honest with yourself

I used to work in retail and I have seen many of you come in and out the store- and honestly, I don't see anyone smiling walking through those mall doors you all look stressed!

So I will ask,

Is it worth it?

Who are the real winners in this setup?


How to Show LOVE all Year Round!


As I said earlier Love cannot be bought! It doesn't matter how much gifts you buy and how expensive they are, it does not equate to love. Love is not material- love is spiritual.

Love is that feeling to comes from the heart- it is that soul connection.

Many of us, in reality, have never felt love and if you have not connected to your heart chakra then you cannot show love, because that means you have never felt love.

Before you can love anyone you MUST love yourself first and once you are connected you will feel the love radiating through you and it will ignite self-love first,  then it will span externally to the love of others.

Love is not selective- love is universal- Love is not selfish - but selfless- Love is GODLY.

Love is pure, it does not come with labels or titles, It does not know race or color.  Love has no boundaries or limits.

Love has no dollar value either.

So when you are thinking about giving a loved one a gift for V-day or even Christmas give them love instead.  Initially, they might not appreciate it, because it is not the "NORM"  but eventually, they will understand it.

Too many unhappy people are in the world with expensive gifts. These people need love but they don't know how to show it or appreciate it when they see it.

Gift buying is a perpetual cycle that is leaving people broke and even more unhappy. Gifts only bring forth temporary happiness if any, and then back to us hating each other and being sad and lonely.

This is a senseless act of "showing no love" that needs to stop.

Buy me a gift not because of its V-day or Christmas or my Birthday. Buy me a gift because you were thinking of me and you thought to get me something special. While it still does not equate to love, it gives a more sentimental feeling.

Love starts with you- It has to be coming from that place of connection when you feel the love.

You will know when the connection is made because you will love yourself first above all. 

So to give love all year long, find that connection- ignite that love for self.

There is saying that goes.......

 You cannot love someone without loving yourself


This saying is the real deal. Once you experience love it will  Firs be love for yourself- then you will start feeling love for others.

If you don't love yourself - then you got no love in you- period!

This is not entirely a bad thing, because I was there and many of us are there, because we had no choice!

So now you know!  zoom that lens in on you- fix you so you can stop looking externally for a love that will not reciprocate because it is just not there.

Because without that love there is no way you can love someone else,

Hence, the reason we try to substitute love for showering others with useless materials.

Stop using gifts to symbolize love because no gift can ever equate to what love truly is.

For years I wanted to experience love and I would look externally for that love- nothing that I  have ever experience externally is comparable to the love I  felt internally.  My love for self-started growing and expanding and what I thought was love before then I started questioning if it was truly LOVE  that I was experiencing.

I am now at a point where I love myself more than anyone else. I now, value myself and I put myself first!

I now choose ME!! So that is how you give love all year round. It is not about buying expensive gifts. The only cost you will pay is loving yourself and developing a love for others, spiritually.

If you ask me that is a worthy price to pay!

Save your money and spend it where it counts because love doesn't cost a thing!

And if you are with someone who measures your love for them based on how big the gift is then that person neither knows how to give or receive love.



 New measure love with physical attributes. Though we expressed love physically- LOVE is merely physical.

Love is spiritual and is made internally. Our expression of love can be felt by the receiver of this love without any giving of any gifts. If the love is not felt by the giver or the receiver then our expression isn't one of love- but of a void that we try to fill with materials. Open your Heart Chakra by being open to give and receive love. Meditate while imagining the color green expanding in your heart's center. Feel the energy and frequency of love flowing through your heart center all the way through your physical body.  Listen to 432hz beats or music when you meditate. Pray and ask God to open your heart to give and receive love.  Remember love is an energy- a vibration that comes from your spiritual being and is expressed through physical expression.


I hope you find this blog to be helpful. I look forward every week to write these blogs with the hope they will impact and changed lives.

As a Life creator please know that you have the universal power of LOVE!



Love you all,



Have a Creative Day!



LIfe Creator/ Light worker